make hay while d sun shines

Well fellas life is sooo short ! I remember making a zillion plans as my vacations would approach .... updating my blog ... beggining a new novel ... travelling to all my shortlisted places ... learn to cook ... caring a bit about my hair ... treating myself to a spa/mani/padi ... going on a shopping spree ... spending lots of time with both frnz nd family ... investing in a noble cause ... managing my time better ... focusing nd figuring out d future ... meditating .... setting life straight ... unwinding the intricacies nd hassles of life ... channelizing some positivity ... But Alas!
Vacations are here and swear to god ! Accomplishing 10% of d list is like an achievment 
leisurely we forget our hard etched list nd vacations pass away ...AND then strikes d hard core reality like a gong !


Whenever we are deprived of something in life all of a sudden its sweet importance rings a doorbell in our grey cells.It is human.We are humans.
So make hay while d sun shines else it ll be too late.

moral : I started implementing this .. with updating my blog :P

20 waala buday

My 20 th was one of my favourite bdays :)

In the morning while I was getting ready Monica surprised me by coming to delhi sooo unexpectedly !! It was a BANG AWWN !!

My party proceeded and I had all my frnz gathered together and we had a dress theme 'back to school'

Everyone was in their attire with shorts and school ties :P

The cake cutting was followed by the newspaper dance game ... It was fun and awweesome !!

And then came my street play team which was sooo unexpected !!

The best part of my Bday was that all my close frnz were present on my bday ... :D (we missed some ppl though :( ) It was really nice to have all the important ppl that mattered to me present on my bday :))

ps-10 yrs down the lane when evrybody will be busy in their own lives with no time to attend birthdays anymore surely these will be memorable times  !!! Cheers !!!

Xpression - Art of living

Speech is a very powerful tool. It is an art and a person with an extensive command
over this art undoubtedly possesses the potential to rule the world.
The art lies in deluding the listener to believe what you say is true , to what extent you say the truth is immaterialistic. People do not give a second thought before judging a person and publicly scandalizing ones image. Not just this a petty incidence can be metamorphosed into 'a magical thundersome happening experience'
by the right pick of words and some add ons.
Such people yearn for public recognition and constant attention.

Few people possess the gift of being able to distinguish between the facts and fiction that might appear to be deceptively similar from outside. It is amusing but the number of such people have considerably fallen.
Recently two of my best friends had a huge tiff and they wouldnt talk let alone see
each others face and I got the opportunity to hear the story of both sides personally.
In general cases one party wins over the other in the percentage of fault earned ,
this case was certainly unusual. Both of them had their parts absolutely toned up
(which seemed rerehersd to me ) so perfectly flawless that when I heard the first part I was pretty sure I knew who was at fault but as soon as I heard the second version it seemed unbelievably relevant and true too! putting me in dilemma which one to believe and who was at fault. I wondered had I been a third party listening to just one version of the story I would have been strongly prejudiced for my entire life and I would have done great unjustice to myself and my friends.

Language is a powerful tool that can certainly convert the magnitude and intensity
of a subject. It can make a serious thing sound casual or a false alarm sound true.
Expression is a good way of communicating your inner voice with the world but
blatancy can be fatal.

Fewer people are blessed with the art of speech and the will to use it right and those few souls are certainly BLESSED !

uPhilL

MOTIVATION

Recently I was wanting to paint my room cuz it was diwali time but when I brought forward my wish to my family they dismissed it as a non serious issue and told me it "wasnt my cup of tea" that it required time labour etc.
I was Demoralised :X

Then I went to my sis and talked it out with her .. Told her about the idea I had in mind and she was all positive and game for it.
She cheered me up and restored my faith in my plan.

MOTIVATION is a very important factor in life .

It drives you in d positive direction filling you up with d right vibes, positivity, vigour and spirit. It happens with almost all of us that at a point in life we feel highly demoralised and negetive about our actions. But then there is always a positive guiding spirit in this universe who helps you believe in yourself be it your siblings, family, best friend, your ideal or your mentor.
Talking your problem out REALLYYYY works and lifts up your spirits. It is very important to talk out to remove d sulk and put your spirits in first gear again.
And finally I did paint my room :)

video

this winter break besides doing a bit of shopping i teamed up with my sis and painted d town pink !!

MY CELL

man is a social animal and besides getting attached to other living beings there are times when we do get attached
to certain non living things as well.. like one of d particular dresses or a pair of shoes that we always feel
comfortable over others..

so my n73 just celebrated its second birthday..and it was in pretty appreciable condition till recently its
back cover just got a lil frictionless..so i had to remove it
and apparently it seemed funny without a back cover and the battered battery sneaking out in a very rugged condition
...so i tried replacing my old n73 with a new phone but sadly i did not like its features
also i cud not get accustomed to the handling of this new cell..the texting seemed like trouble and it wud hav taken
me ages to get accustomed to something less than a n73 keypad

my mom goes berserk if she cannot reach me on my phone and so do my frnzzz...

phones have become an essential commodity.. they help connect between people besides chit chatting texting has become
an evn more essential part today.. they help me check my to dos and notes ..
it assists my grey cell by memorizing ol d birthday reminders
it helps me read a document without having to carry a laptop at all places with me
it helps me rejuvenate with fresh music by playing my fav bands
it helps me click gud moments.. it makes sure i cherish gud memories life long
it serves the purpose of a mirror too as it has a vgi front camera
i can easily complete an e book on my cell
it helps me connect to my frnz on fb
it helps me check my mail
its dictionary comes very handy


it has taken an unimaginable important part
in my life and sustainance without is next to impossible
i dont find one reason to part away from my cell when it is so perfect and serves multi purposes
its perfectly operational .. besides everybody drops down some clothes why not my cell??

ADD aCTION TO LIFE..

There are certain things in your day that you become habitual of and you cant imagine your day getting completed without them…my recent addictions since my first sem exams hav just got over( nd while um sitting idle at home :P) are:

Net addiction
Gossip addiction
Message addiction
Sudoko addiction
Junk addiction
Music addiction
Shopping addiction
Friends addiction
Quilt(Rajai) addiction
Picture clicking addiction
Serial(not the khane wala ofcourse :P) addiction
Nail paint addiction

But has there been a day when we sat on d study table which is covered with layers of dust piling up on its desk in the corner of my room in a highly ignored condition,and have I been saying today is the study addiction day!!!

Has there been any day when we sat down with our grandparents and talked our hearts out wid them saying today is grandparents addiction day!!

Have we ever gone in the kitchen to help our moms make the dinner saying today is mother dinner addiction day(I suck at the rhyming part :P)!!

Has there ever been a day when we thought of not littering our city and kept the empty crumbled can of coke in our bags saying that it is a clealiness addiction day!!!

Has there ever been a day when we stopped bragging about our selves and letting others down and giving them space to breathe thinking that it is a “being self” addiction day!!!

Has there ever been a day when we tried to genuinely help somebody leaving our interests behind thinking that it is a “help others” addiction day!!!


Has there ever been a day when we went to market n helped our father in his task leaving besides the highly engrossing psps thinking that it is a father addiction day!!!


Has there ever been a day when we left aside our hastles of life and smiled ..smiled for others cuz its contagious…!! to spread love peace nd harmony , saying that it is a smile addiction day!!!

Has there ever been a day when we thought besides cursing those engineering books, to spread a word of literacy to the poor thinking it’s a “spread knowledge” addiction day??

Has there ever been a day when you thought of writing your heart out in your blog like I did …thinking it’s a say-ur-heart-out addiction day??

jurn-yeaa!!

time goes on and we grow up so fast that at times we deter from our real aim in life and d cycle of nature continues..life has become a roller coaster with such a rush that at times it is soo very easy to flow with d flow ..keeping aside d philosophical story i recently got a chance to go to vrindavan nd mathura and by d grace of god it went very pleasant.
D trip wos so soul detoxifying nd relaxing that it helped me take a break from d hullaballo of life. the trip wos basically for d elder genre but my nani wos a lil reluctant to go alone so i nd my cousin accompanied her.As d jurney started d oldies started wid their bhajan keertan nd wheneva um wid naani she asks me to sing one solo ...nd this time it wos no different she asked me nd i had to sing..
we visited many temples ..iskon temple wos d ultimate of oll nd d 50 inches wide lane where d tattered rikshaaw waalas passed wishing 'raadhe raadhe' wos super spiritual.it wos fun :) :)

LIFE AHEAD

the sun is blazing fire ...but no reasons can deter the enthusiasm of the young and free teens who are ready to take on the challenging DU admissions.
The campus is definately seen alive with students rushing in and out inspecting the campus , the colleges and the hot dudes and chiks ..... and fortunately even i got a chance to be a part of this rush hour in the campus and o my ! what a site ?? the campus was truely filled and bubbling with kids aspiring to get admission in DU. Cool teens, Longggg ques ,sweating foreheads,ray bans, baggy bags,ganji,sleazy slippers were oll around and the air gave me a feeling of high...!!
Being a science student i had always been advised by elderly to opt for engineering and speaking of my personal opinion i had never been interested in it but DU ....and now when i went to DU i knew i was definately right!!!!

THATS HOW LIFE GOES...

when life comes to a standstill
every day seems as if a rough climb uphill
when no more vision can sooth ur pain
when no more words are of use or gain
when no reasons make u feel any good
when no ideas can chear ur mood
when no solutions can solve ur sorrow
when no happiness u can borrow
when dreams distance away from your reach
nd u find urself deprived of speech
when you are broken by this wretched life...
of wars and tensions no more to strive
when all directions seem to end in a ditch
and then u realise life is a bitch
and yet there comes no ray of hope
to console ur pains and work as antidote
is the way life goes....
but men who sail and survive thru these times
their names are chiselled in history on shrines
life goes on in the most unusual way
so you tough up to make miseries stay away